Telinga aku dah naik bernanah dah ni bila orang asyik dok tanya aku:
- Kenapa Si Dia tu pakai tudung macam tak pakai tudung?
- Baik buang je tudung tu dari bernanah mata aku tengoknye
- Pesen apa Si Dia tu pakai, macam pompuan giler je
dan yang sewaktu dengannya.
Well, frankly speaking, I have no idea how to answer these sort of questions...Tanyalah aku Portal Hypertension ke, Esophageal Varices ke, Impotency ke (well, some even labeled me as Mr. ED for some reason that I dont know)..ni tak, tanya aku pasal tudung Si Dia tu..I'm not her husband ?..
I still remembered the day when she decided to give her hand in marriage to that so-called millionaire Dato', the guys were frustating over broken dreams (including me!!..haha), while the girls were chit-chatting about her 'saya-dah-fikir-masak2-keputusan-saya' decision, which until now, doesnt seem fair to her die-hard-fan..well..it created a phenomenon all over the region for the next three months..Even so, that is not something to be proud of..In fact, I dare to say that she even lose some of the qualities that made me captivated way back in my school time...I'm afraid to say Si Dia isn't Si dia anymore...
Where's her down-to-earth attitude? I still remembered some folk in FELDA a few years ago mentioning that there were afraid if she became more popular in thr future, she may no longer entertain the villager's...More importantly, where's her sanity?,to be able to mingle off with God's order? Perhaps she is still naieve in these things., We can;t just jump to the conclusion, right?
Let me tell you what I do know.. What she is currently doing now is ABSOLUTELY wrong, in terms of religion, and in terms of seeking fame out of herself...
Firman Allah:
“Hendaklah mereka menutupkan kain tudung kedadanya dan janganlah mereka menampakkan perhiasannya kecuali kepadasuami mereka, atau ayah mereka...”. (al-Nur: 31)
The quotation from the Holy Quran clearly states the needs for Moslems to care for their 'aurat'. So, apa yang nak dibising-bisingkan lagi... Dia dah kahwin, so, yang yang sebetul-betulnye kena tegur die laki die lah.. bukan aku kan?..Ya Allah...I dare not to say anything anymore..
But what i dare say is that, no matter her decision is, she knows people out there are putting high expectation on her.,so she's not comfortable with what she's doing... Personally, I think she looks more demure without her so-called hijab???? Not that I agree she should take off her hijab..Plz don;t get that wrong!
Apa-apa pun, aku tak nak masuk campur urusan rumah tangga orang..Biarla dorunk settle sendiri..Aku tetap mengagumi anugerah yang tuhan dah bagi kat insan bernama Si Dia nie...tapi tu x bermaksud aku akan menegakkan benang yang basah..what is wrong is still wrong..So i hope you guys out there, stop asking me questions like what i had mentioned earlier...
p/s: For certain reason, I had to edit some of the points in this post so it wouldn't insult anyone..I highly appreciate those who were concern enough to advice me regading this..Happy Reading..!!
chill ah dude!
ReplyDeleteWere you referring to this?
ReplyDeleteWearing tudung is a non issue. I strongly believe every woman has the right to wear one whenever they feel they're ready to hold the responsibility.
And, kalu nak cakap pasal life during and after FELDA, I'm pretty sure Mawi can relate to that, kan? hahaha.
haha..thx for the comments folk..
ReplyDeleteyup..i might have sound too emotional..
Frankly speaking, I am one of her pminat kipas susah mati..
i even bought her album from the beginning until the latest..
so..the reason why i posted the entry was not too insult anyone especially her..
to qaustic..
i don't know you, but i really appreciate ur comment..yup..memangla keputusan memasing nak pakai tudung ke x..but once you decided to wear a hijab..wear it properly..coz it's religious issue..just imagine what non-muslims will say if they ask is that the right way to wear a tudung..she's a phenomenon in this country..she should have used it to benefit others..kedengaran sangatla pentingkan diri..kenapa CT nak memuaskan hati semua orang plak..yup..it's difficult to be someone named Ct Nurhaliza..but she can compromize with other things..not this..
I want to clearly STATE here..I admire her talent and her down-to-earth attitude..at least..when she's on the top, she did not 4get her family..and i want to be as successful as her..
Maaf, bukan celahan, tetapi dapatan daripada pemerhatian.
ReplyDeleteSecara peribadi; saya sendiri meminati Datuk Siti walaupun agaknya kurang sesuai dengan label SMKA yang saya bimbingi ke mana-mana. Namun yang ingin saya perihalkan secara rasionalnya di sini; tudung bukan satu isu. Isunya ialah bagaimana kita meletakkan Siti itu sebagai muslim dan diri kita juga sebagai muslim. Kita terlalu memperlekeh usaha berdikit-dikit orang lain, sedangkan pernahkah kita tersedar tentang kurangnya diri sendiri di mata tuhan? Siapalah kita untuk menilai nawaitu orang lain, dan terus bercerita tindak-tanduk orang lain yang kurang kita senangi.
Siti juga manusia, dia harus belajar dengan kehidupannya sendiri dan kita (jika muslim) harus membantu semana mampu (doa). Secara peribadi pula, saya hanya mampu kata begini,
"biolah dengan die tu.. tu hal die dengan allah taala"
Sdr Cyberzwan(sy nak tahu nama sebenar sdr), sampaikan yang terbaik kepada yang bertanya tu ya? Dalam hidup kita perlu pandang diri sendiri, sebelum pandang orang lain, dan belajar dengan hidup sendiri kemudian baru kita boleh menilai yang sebaik-baiknya untuk kehidupan sendiri.
hm..pakai tudung tanpa rela tp kena paksa pon dosa gak. Hehe.. slm kenal..
ReplyDeletetidak kusangka post aku mengundang bicara ramai orang..
ReplyDeleteterima kasih kepada adik shamsul amin ni...
yup..memang itu urusan dia dengan Pencipta..
saya tulis post ni pon sebab ramai yang dok tanya saya itu-ini..
So saya beri komen saya..itu sahaja..
perbetulkan diri sendiri..yeah..banyak lagi yang saya kene belajar bab-bab agama ni...tapi itu x bermakna saya boleh lepas pandang begtu saja..
I'll just keep quite after this since my thoughts are used against me..haha..
p/s: terima kasih di atas pandangan yang bernas tu..cukup bernas untuk seorang yang berumur cuma 15 tahun..
btw..saya Muhammad Hazwan Nasarudin
gilalah, wan, isu simple jadi begini. Yah ada cerita pd aku pasal ada sorang ustaz beritahu kalau kita nampak perempuan pakai macam tutup aurat tapi tak tutup sebenarnya, jangan dicela orang tu. sebaliknya, fikir yang sekurang-kurangnya dia cuba tutup sikit.
ReplyDeletetapi, in the same time, kita kan memang disuruh menghentikan kemungkaran depan mata seboleh mungkin. tak dengan tindakan sendiri, hentikan dengan lisan. tak dengan lisan, janganlah kita setuju dalam hati.
and in the same time, kita tak boleh mengaibkan orang lain. tak boleh juga mengumpat and umpatan tu didefinisikan sebagai berkata tentang seseorang itu dengan perkara yang tidak disukainya, but in the same time again... aku pernah tanya jabatan agama islam selangor pasal hukum mengumpat. dia balas balik dengan ada juga masa bercerita tentang keburukan seseorang itu dibolehkan. contohnya, dengan berbuat demikian, orang yang mendengar masalah kita tu boleh tolong menyelesaikan masalah itu. ada beberapa lagi keadaan lain tapi aku tak ingat :P
so, in my opinion... it's okay to tell her directly that what she does is wrong and still be grateful that at least she covers a part of her hair... but to tell out her wrongdoings to the public to humiliate her, that doesn't seem right. tapi aku tak rasa kau tgh cuba humiliate dia. kalau mahu elakkan orang lain buat perkara sama... aku rasa, cukuplah kalau kau menggantikan nama dia dengan 'polan'. eg. si polan pakai tudung separuh. therefore, you can save some humilitation and you can still recite the verses from Quran to provide guidance and to clarify things.
regarding the previous comment... personally, i think, to keep everything to ourselves is a form of selfishness. of course, we are already struggling to run from God's wrath, what more if we were to save others from it? but i don't think it's wrong to try to save as many people as you can while trying to save yourself. multi-tasking boleh cuba kot.
oh, well, aku tak baik pun. cuma suka bentangkan pendapat aku :D